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Anonymous asked: My boyfriend is currently in the future... Does that count as a long distance relationship? |
So this is a random story, but I felt the need to share it. My boyfriend and I met in college. He lives in NC where the college is at, and I live in WI. Last summer around July 4th he came up to WI to visit. On the car ride to the airport, I was soooo nervous. When we got to the airport, I had to stall in the bathroom just to calm myself down. I had the biggest, cheesiest grin on my face. When I saw him, I ran to him and gave him the biggest hug ever. When he had to leave after 2 weeks, it was so hard to say goodbye.
Fast forward to about a month ago, I flew home from college into the airport that he came into last summer. That was the first time that I had been at that airport since he left. Walking past the places that we had been together in that airport were so hard. Standing at the baggage claim where he was waiting last year was one of the hardest things ever.
I’m so happy that we don’t have it as hard as some other LDR’s because I honestly don’t think I could stand it. We see each other for about 8-9 months out of the year. I’m the kind of girl who needs someone with her all of the time. If I had to be without him any longer than I am, I think I would die from sadness. I applaud those of you who can go for years without seeing your SO in person. I wish I had the strength like that.
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Anonymous asked: My boyfriend wants me to move to Canada with him within two years. I live in the US. I'm scare to,and his family wants me there too. Its scary but I know if I go there I'm going to be happy/miserable. What should I do. He has a good job but I;m scare that things might go wrong. Never move until or unless YOU are comfortable with the idea. Of course he wants you to move there. He wants to be with you, and he wouldn’t have to do even a bit of adjusting. Moving is a big thing in itself, leaving your family and friends and having to get used to a new place. Moving to a different country is even scarier because you’d have to get used to new (even if they’re similar..) customs and laws and all that. You need to prepare yourself, think about it for as long as you need, and then decide whether or not it’d be something you’d want to do. Unless you’re ready, you will probably end up resenting him for taking you away from the life you have. Talk to him, and tell him basically what I just said to you. He needs to be willing to wait until you’re ready, unless he wants to be the one to move. |
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Anonymous asked: ok so my bf and i have been together almost 2 years, we love each other a ton and all that jazz. but sometimes i just want him to be able to pour his heart out to me and tell me how he feels about me, you know? and like i dont know how to tell him that without seeming liek demanding. when i ask he says im being insecure or somethin. hellpppp You’re not being insecure, you’re just two different types of people. Some people love to talk about feelings, and hear about feelings, and some people think that their actions show it enough and that by putting it into words it’s just overkill. Tell him that you understand that, and that you’ll stop asking him if he promises to try a little harder to sometimes tell you how much you mean to him. |
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Anonymous asked: If your in ldr with someone and they have a chance to move back to where you live with there grandma, but say so many excuses of why he can't live with her.. but he has lived there before and did just fine but now its different all of a sudden, should i be worried? I mean he used to live here when we first started dating but now he doesn't wanna move back, is that a sign that he is happier there and isn't as in love with me as he says he is? -_- I need help No, it’s not a sign of that. Yes, it could be, but it mostly likely means exactly what he’s saying: he doesn’t want to live with his grandma. Moving is a big deal, and although you being there is a huge plus, he’d be living with his grandma, which is something he doesn’t want to do for all of the reasons he’s giving you, he’d be leaving a place that he just got settled into… I know it feels personal and that it’s something to worry about, but the problem with distance is that someone has to move, and it’s really not easy to be that person. Listen to him and believe what he’s saying to you even though it’s hard. It doesn’t mean he doesn’t love you. |
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jtaiimeuuhdav asked: Hey I need advise I made a socket monkey for my bf and don't if I should give because it's first time I made and I think it's ugly chek my blog to see if it's okey to give koz I don't know:/ I scrolled through a few pages on your blog and still didn’t see a picture of a sock monkey… But it doesn’t matter what it looks like. You made it, of course you need to give it to him! It’s not about the quality of the gift, it’s about the thought and even if it didn’t turn out that great, he’ll think it’s adorable that you tried making it. |
i met my ldr, eric, in a place i had thought to only be reserved for random hook ups and one night stands: a college bar. we met on st. patrick’s day (i like to tell myself that my irish heritage had something to do with this) and hit it off by grinding it out on the beer-soaked dance floor. i was totally hammered. he’d only had one drink. he asked me if i wanted to go back with him to his place. now i’d made it a point to never go as far as to go back with random guys i met at bars, but for some unknown (fateful) reason, i went against my morals and left with him. so there we were, flirting and making out in his bed and surprise! he asked if i wanted to have sex. now although i’d thrown my rule about going home with dudes i don’t know out the window, i stood by my “don’t have sex with someone you don’t love” rule. so i announced to him that i was a virgin. now when most guys hear this, they’ll pull that “oh i’m pretty tired. you going home soon?” move. or they try and push you more and more to do what they want. but eric told me he totally respected that, let me stay the night, and didn’t try anything else. later i found out my refusal to get it on was what interested him in me. in the morning he walked me back to my dorm, letting me borrow his clothes so i didn’t have to perform a 15 minute walk of shame during friday morning classes. he told me to return the clothes at a later time so he’d have another chance to see me again. later that day, he texted me asking me how my calculus exam went, which i’d told him about the previous night. two weeks later, we were dating. and now, over a year later, we’re 1300 miles apart and our relationship is stronger than ever. i love him more and more each day. it just goes to show that love doesn’t always happen when you expect it to, or with whom you expect it. in fact, i think it’s better that way.
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Anonymous asked: Hello! I've been together with my ldb for about 3 months. We both live in separate countries. Him in the U.K, and myself U.S.A. We've known eachother online for around 2 years before we started dating. We want to spend the rest of our lives together, but we actually have yet to meet in person. Money is a bit of an issue, also that we are both still young. We are currently both 18. Is it too young and too soon to decide something like this? We love one another so much. 18 is young, but it’s definitely a reasonable time to be thinking about things. You’re definitely old enough to be working, so you can start saving money, and you’re old enough to know what love is. Yes, things can change over time but they can no matter how old you are. If you’re in love, then you’re in love. Do what you can to plan, and let the rest fall into place as you become more financially stable, it’ll all work out if you keep trying. |
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