Anonymous asked: Hey Lily, I'm so glad you're back! I've been wanting to ask you about something... For one thing, is it odd for me to be over my boyfriend of over two years if we broke up only three months ago? The second is: how do you know if a guy is really into you or if he's just really nice?
It’s not odd. Whatever you’re feeling is valid. It’s all the better for you if you can get over it quickly, makes your life simpler. No reason to feel sad just because you think you should be.
Now telling whether or not a guy likes you can be tricky. It’s always hard to tell! I thought Eddie was just being nice to me even when he was wining and dining me and kissing my cheek goodbye, just because I couldn’t imagine him being interested in me. It’s usually hardest to see it when it’s you! So I suggest asking someone who sees the two of you together what they think. If that isn’t an option, and you like this guy, try to turn up your flirting a little bit and see how he reacts.